Saturday, October 31, 2015

Happy Halloween

It was a rainy windy night for Trick or Treating, but the kids enjoyed themselves. Truthfully two days ago we were not even sure we were going to go. I was at Meijer last night getting their costumes at 8:00 p.m. We originally had plans to make them. I will save that for next year. We just have been so busy with a lot of other things Halloween got put on the very back burner. Regardless they loved their costumes and had a blast. 



Raphael.......



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This is the one that makes me puzzled. Lilliana is not really into the Disney Princess thing. In fact after we saw Frozen she didn't like it. Occasionally I have caught her singing let it go, but she just was not that into it. In the past she has not wanted to be a Disney anything. So when she chose Elsa I was surprised. Either way she loved her costume......


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The Boxman (aka UPS man).........


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I hope everybody enjoyed their Halloween as much as these 3 did. 


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Thursday, October 29, 2015

Fall

I am so thankful for a husband that pushes me when he knows I will end up enjoying something or  have regrets that I didn't do something. I really thought I would let this year's fall pictures go and not do them. We have just had so much going on and I have not had the energy to do it all. My camera has been the neglected thing with being busy. Anthony has been challenging me to get it out just one day a month. He is such a good man. He knows my outlets and passions for creativity. His response when I told them I wasn't going to do them, "You have to get at least one nice picture of all of them together." So, per his request I obliged. He even came outside to help me if I needed it. I don't move as fast as I did a month ago....the waddling seems to have set in. 


Needless to say I am thrilled we did them..............



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Of course Ari decided he was not going to cooperate.......



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His mood continued for their group photo. Either way it is so Ari and I know come the future we will all laugh. He reminds me so much of my dear sister Tosha.







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We did not make it to the Cider Mill this year. I don't think we will. We were going to go this past weekend, but just had other things to get done. In all actuality I am glad we did not go. They had an E. Coli contamination since the cider is not pasteurized. 

The trees have been so beautiful this year. They have stayed on the trees for a while and we are really enjoying them. October really is such a favorite month of mine in Michigan. Once again Michigan delivered. Now if I could just remember this in February with the snow and cold. 

Monday, October 26, 2015

September-October

Fall is flying by, and  I haven't had time to really touch my camera. I could be more intentional, but I have been enjoying the moment. Here is what we have been up to and enjoying................




A visit from Grandma and a lot of outings. Sadly, I did not hardly get any pictures of her with them while she was here. We had so much fun.

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Bike Rides, lots of Bike Rides (Side note: September/October light is my favorite)............



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Teeth or lack there of.....


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Visits from Great Grandparents which included drywall, electrical, lots of cooking and of course SEWING!!


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More on the drywall, electrical, and remodel later but here is the view we looked at for years although this is a new design even so it isn't true to that. I will do a post on that later though. 





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Here is where we are now....

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Somehow in all that time we have gone from 13 weeks pregnant to 19. Next week we find out if baby is a boy or girl as long as baby cooperates!!

I have been feeling pretty good. Just a bit tired with all our wonderful family visiting and the remodel being done. Either way, I am doing great. I had gained all of 4 pounds, but I got on the scale today and I am back to no weight gain. This is rather odd for me. I am not complaining at all! Once again I contribute it to Trim Healthy Mama!! Usually by now I would have gained 20 pounds. (No not restricting food at all. I eat every 2 hours if anybody is concerned) There have also been a lot of baby kicks. Ari is obsessed with the baby. There are days every hour he grabs my stomach and says, "Hi Baby!"


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Last but not least we celebrated Anthony turning 30! The kids were confused because for a couple months he has just said he is 30. He enjoyed his favorite cheesecake.


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Needless to say we have been very busy. I don't anticipate it slowing down anytime soon with the holidays approaching, our involvement with church increasing, homeschooling, finishing the remodel, and of course raising these crazy kids. We are enjoying the crazy.....most days:) 

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

September 2015- 10 on 10

I missed out last month on 10 on 10. First I probably was barely above water and functioning due to being sick and I also didn't want to spoil why we had started school so early. Warning-All these months of not blogging, has brought out a chatty me. There is a lot of information. If you choose to just scroll through the pictures, I completely understand.


Today I took the time to document our day. It will be informational as well. Many times I hear from so many mothers that they could never home school. I completely understand. It is a daunting decision. I also know that it is SOO doable. You don't realize what you are capable of until you do it. I thought I would use today to show you what a typical day for us looks like.

Honestly, Anthony and I knew we would home school before we were married. It was just what we wanted. I did contemplate putting Eli in school. Then Common Core came through and that sealed the deal to continue homeschool. As I have seen, kids are being burned out on school or testing really. There are so many wonderful teachers and their hands are tied with government regulation and oversight.  I wanted more for my kids as long as I could do it. Yes, some days are tough, and financially it is not always the easiest. Do I think poorly of anybody else that does not choose to home school. Absolutely NOT!! It is a family decision that has to be made for you. Homeschooling is becoming more mainstream and honestly most areas have WONDERFUL communities.


I have talked several times about the type of education we use. We use a Charlotte Mason approach. It is different than most "school" you would think of. Our days are not filled with worksheets. In fact now I can't dream of giving my child a worksheet. Lessons are short. So you don't finish something that day oh well, you pick up the next day. It is also gentle. Formal learning really does not begin until 6. Yes letter tracing etc. can be done earlier, but it is not like what most kids in preschool these days do. Instead they spend hours outside playing and observing nature and studying it. Our work is filled with rich literature and what are known as living books. Instead of a child doing a worksheet or answering questions they are required to narrate what they read or what I read to them. This may seem easy, but many of the books are advanced literature so it is more difficult than you might think. We also fill our days with a feast from poetry, to classical music, paintings, and artists. Habits are big. We work on habits and character. It is an atmosphere. Sometimes I struggle to describe it, because it really is so different and people look at you like you are nuts. There are several places you can find curriculum guides for CM education. We use Ambleside Online. It is wonderful. I feel like I am getting a second education and loving it myself. 


Today was our normal Tuesday because of observing the holiday. Each day is a different subject and so it varies, but for the most part is the same as far as the schedule. Math, copywork, reading/ponics, morning breakfast routine, and outside time are done everyday. History, literature, geography, are given their own day. We start out sitting at breakfast together with our Bible reading, nursery rhyme, poetry by a poet for the term. This term we are reading Robert Louis Stevenson. We also do Spanish and work on memorization of a Bible Verse and Poem. Today was our composure study. For the term we have listened to Brahms. This may seem like a lot, but in all honesty we complete all of this in about 20 minutes.

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This is Eli's first year of real formal learning. We did Math last year, the beginning phonics rules, and some readings. I was not really pushing much because I knew that 1st grade would be plenty for everything. I can't say we will do as much with Lilliana and Ari as we did with Eli. Truly that is because has always been advanced and needed that stimulation. They don't necessarily with their personalities.

After breakfast the kids get dressed, make beds, brush teeth, and we do a few chores. Today I had them vacuum the edge of the carpets and wash a few walls. The youngest two either color or trace letters in salt at this point. Lilliana is working on her name. Normally I would not even ask this. Penmanship should always be neat and so we don't usually start much until 6. I want quality over quantity. She has been begging so I agreed to let her do her name. She is doing well and we have several years to refine this.


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Eli and I take this time to begin his work. The kids color play and trace their letters. They usually make up their own games and are happy to be left alone by Eli and I. Today is Geography day. We read a page in Paddle to the Sea. Then Eli filled in his map of what we learned and we watched a video about sawmills as Paddle landed at a sawmill today.


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After Paddle we did Math. Today was a short day for reading. We usually have two readings a day, but finished our other book so it was short. Math is both of our favorites. In school it was never mine and truly I blame that on the lack of fundamental skills that really are not taught well in elementary. A math curriculum was the hardest decision. I am thankful for the one we chose. It may be the most expensive, but wow have my skills improved greatly and Eli LOVES it just as much as I do if not more. If you are interested we use Right Start math.  After math we work on Phonics and reading with a very short lesson being 15 minutes. Eli really does not enjoy reading. That is pretty normal. A child will excel at either Math or Reading not usually both from what I have learned. He is definitely a math kid. He is doing well with reading though.


Science is not a curriculum with CM in the early years. Instead at this age they spend hours outside studying and identifying plants, insects, animals etc. They also have a nature book they draw in. Nature study we have found can be everywhere. This morning in particular our science study was two moths that had found their way in our house last night through an open screen that was not supposed to be opened. Ari told me all about it. He was the most excited, but the other kids learned things too.

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For formal lessons that was our day. It really took Eli and I a total of an hour and that was playing a math card game together.

At that point I sent them outside to play until lunch.

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After lunch the youngest two took naps and so did I. Before that Eli had his art lesson and also daily copywork. He usually copies from a poem or story. It is amazing how in just a few short weeks his handwriting has improved. He loves to draw also.

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I failed at getting pictures until after our evening walk. I woke up very sick and so it was a chore to just get dinner on the table. A nice walk helped me though. 

September light is my favorite........



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The best find of the night was the Monarch Caterpillar. We brought him home and learned so much more about Monarchs. They are actually dwindling in population so anytime you find one you should try to bring it and raise it in a protected area. We can't wait to draw him tomorrow and watch him the next couple of days. This is the atmosphere of education CM taught.

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I hope I was able to show you how easy and doable homeschooling is. There are so many other wonderful curriculums available too. We love Charlotte Mason, but I know it is not for everybody. If you have considered it I hope I was an encouragement. I am happy to answer any questions you may have. 
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Tuesday, September 8, 2015

1,2,3.................

4!!!

Yep, Reuther baby #4 will be joining our family between March and April of 2016. This is why I have been so absent for the past few months. I have not felt well at all. I spent a year eliminating so many things from my diet to feel the best I could. Mentally it has been hard on me to not feel good and not be able to do anything. Before if I felt bad, I knew it was from eating junk, or not exercising. Thankfully I am finally feeling better. I have hope that my blood pressure stays good the entire time. I have worked so hard to be healthy the past year, that I am hoping it does the trick.

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(This is not the clearest picture. I know it is out of focus, but it was the favorite so it is what I used, Today we heard the heartbeat for the first time and it is from that.)


The kids are so excited. They can finally tell everybody. They have kept this quiet since I was 6 weeks!! My 3 crazy monkeys have kept a secret for 6 weeks!!!!! They have been the best helpers I could ask for. Many days they have played so nicely while I was sick on the couch. They have endured not the best dinners (really they were thrilled as they were not healthy). They also have helped tremendously with the house chores. Usually we tell everybody right away because I have no torso and my stomach immediately begins showing. I can thank all my exercising to build my stomach muscles beforehand and I made it to 12 weeks without too much show. I popped this past week so we are finally telling. It has been a nice change to keep the secret. Consequently, I have hardly taken any belly photos like I usually do. This is the one photo I have taken at 11.5 weeks.


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I say these things half joking and half not, because you know what you will get with comments....

1. Yep, we know how this happens, we obviously must like it.

2. Was this baby planned?-From what I have learned it doesn't matter what you plan, God always has a different plan.

3. That is a lot of kids!!-Yep, and if you knew Anthony and I we both always wanted 6 before we were married.

4. Are you done?-I have no idea. I am not making that decision at this point, although 3 weeks ago, yes. 

5. Are you having a hospital or home birth?- We of course are planning a home birth. I can't imagine any other way. I contemplated a hospital birth for a day. At this point I just can't do it. Of course even if something does happen and we have to go to the hospital it is just fine.


In case you have any other crazy comments or concerns....The one thing I learned from Ari is, a baby is ALWAYS a blessing even under the worst situations (neither of which were Ari or this baby). Trusting God's plan is always best. I can't begin to even tell you how many things have just fallen into place with this baby. I think it is truly because of  trusting God. We are thrilled and can't wait to add to our family.


The other big thing we have kept up on is school. Pretty much as soon as we found out we began school. Eli agreed it would be fun to get spring off when the weather was just breaking from Winter. We began in the middle of July and have been going strong since. This means we will finish the middle of March. I will post more about school in the coming days. I did take these photos several weeks ago for the beginning of this school year. I can't believe Eli is in 1st grade!!!


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I love them so much and am so excited we are adding another to this crazy house.